Often the idea of mediation is dismissed as an option due to the arguing, hurt feelings, distrust, and other negative feelings that surround the conflict. The thought is a natural one.  How can mediation work when the smallest thing triggers conflict?

Despite the seeming impossibility, mediation is still a very viable option in the vast majority of cases including high conflict situations.  The presence of a skilled neutral party can have a powerful positive affect.  The mediator provides a buffer as well as keeping both parties focused on reaching agreement – facilitating communication and focusing on interests not the mess that surrounds the issue.

As a general rule, if both parties are willing to try mediation then it should be a first option. If those in dispute are willing to try, mediators can get them talking and working towards a win-win solution.

Additional Reading:

• What is Mediation?
• Divorcing Couples Should Try Mediation First
• Mediation In High Conflict Situations
• We Disagree, Can We Mediate?

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• Preparing To Win Divorce Mediation
• Divorce Mediation – Why Mediate A Divorce?
• Mediation & Divorce Involving Children
• Mediation – Divorcing When Children Involved

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